reference to a counter in a tabular ?

[Mario Baussmann]

Hi,
is it possible to reference to a counter inside a tabular?
The first column of the tabular should be an incremented number for each row.
The second column is text. The text should contain references to other row numbers.
The third column is text.
I made the counter with \newcounter{test}. The increment with \refstepcounter{test}.
The reference with \label{here} and \ref{here}.
But the reference number was the numer of the table, not of the counter.

Is it possible to solve this problem?

Thanks,
Mario Baussmann